Loud Thoughts!

2010-03-10T15:50:00.010+05:00

I am Mrs Khadija Ahmad - my adopted name!MY hubby is a retired army officer and three years back he got married to a young woman working in his office so I took a separation from him and am living alone ...... and Alhamdulilah very happy like him!My hubby is very kind for not divorcing me although he could have even after our 32 yrs of togetherness and 3 kids who are now happily married in their respective cities!My hats off to him - JazakAllah Muhsin!He General Sahaab as I call him is very generous by the Grace of Almighty Allah and providing for my monthly expenses and in return I like a very good old wife do not bother him or complain so Alhamdulilah all is well so please do not grieve over my sad predicament!Actually it is best we remain apart because we both have very different lifestyles,friends and ambitions so like the saying goes One Dukh SOW Sukh!Let me add if it was not for him I would have been on the street - a woman is nothing without her husband even if it is just his name - I am extremely grateful to him for looking after me and may Allah swt be my Witness!

What I wish to discuss is Family the most important unit of our society and the most broken down ....... a few points daily and some may be related to my traumatic life and others a general view of what I read or hear so please do not target me like you folk did the last time I wrote a blog when some extremely sick female started a tirade against me using the name of my dear mother in law who is no more in this world by writing details of some of our ugly episodes..... although I am sure she has million such hideous skeletons hidden in her own filthy cupboard .... may Allah swt knock sense into every evil doer's perverted brain and give them a taste of their own medicine Ameen!I know it is wrong to do such a dua but people have become so hard hearted,selfish,arrogant hypocrites that only Allah Swt can deal with them!My apologies for bad mouthing but the harsh treatment has taken a toll on me when ever I remember the past!!!

A Family starts with a husband and wife and if they are bonded the family is safe but if the man of the house wishes to follow his own rules ignoring those which Allah Swt has ordained then all is lost - that family is doomed if not in this world then the next for sure .... so do analyze in which group you fit the modern,stylish or the simpletons .......!!!Lets start with a very inn and pet statement "a wife should obey her hubby and he can even hit her if necessary" - I do not contradict it because it is what my Most Loving Allah swt commands but unfortunately our society ignores,hides or forgets to mention the rest which says men should obey Allah swt and follow our Holy Prophet pbuh!Our men like to party in mixed gatherings,have good food daily,see movies,enjoy songs,gossip,not interested in Tabligh and feel they are Mr Know All and are adamant that their women follow them and ..... end up in hell!!!Did our Holy Prophet Pbuh do the same or are our darling,innocent men above him and do they have the license to murder the Sunnat teachings?

Would like to share a true story about a very close relation ........ her parents never liked her for whatever reason only they know and after many years her very pretty baby sis arrived and then they sort of started hating her - made her life miserable and kept her sister apart like as if she was a leper and time slowly passed into years - I do not say they were not nice to her because they did lots of wonderful good as well and I pray Allah swt blesses them with the best of bests for that Ameen!

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